When should I walk away??

 The question is when should I walk away?

Another question is walk away from what?

My chat this night will begin with the second question,there are many things one must walk away from when it's due time.

Don't overstay for any reason....

Most of those things are,..

Relationship *

People *

Job*

Family *

Party*

Environment*

Now talking about relationship, relationship is a beautiful experience until it gets sour.... when you find yourself in good relationship with either your spouse or a friend,.. and it's been going well so far, you have this beautiful memories of them....

But along the line things begin to change.. communication begins to limit..no more quality time together..no more post of besties....no more hang out ....and you begin to wonder what is wrong...but you aren't getting any answers .

The next thought falls on you, thinking you are at fault, maybe you did something wrong,with all the overflow mix feeling,you try to reach out to get more closer ,you want your relationship back ,you wants it to work...

But you ain't getting same energy from your partner or friends..they don't remember you..they don't see you...they don't care...they only talk to you when you call but they never do...they don't reach out....

This is the right time to walk away...a very good time to cut of from people who no longer see your value...

Give them space become invisible for your own mental well-being... build yourself in your closet.

Job*. ...when you are tired of a particular job which has been draining you physically, emotionally, mentally,....

A job that is taking too much from you..a job that doesn't add to your knowledge or pocket

Quit for your peace and self draining.

People*... I will be telling you this now.. lots of people are manipulators..yes and I mean it..stay far away from manipulators ,...

Manipulators are this set of people who would make you see your wrong in their wrong...they will make you become vulnerable so they can trampled on your emotions anytime every time,

They will discover your weakness and always use it against you and make it look like they are the victim..... manipulators are like parasite, sucking deep into you..you can't get away because they'll make you feel guilty even when you've done nothing wrong 

Another people are users..walk away from users... this set of people are only interested in what they gets from you..the moment they stop getting that benefits they disappear.

Recognize them and cut them off

Environment* ...if environment begins to hate on you ... don't overstay your welcome... take your leave to avoid embarrassment and mental drama of (see finish)

Family*... family is not even excluded..yes it is not.. don't overstay your welcome in your family when you are not contributing.. some family may understand but not all

Don't sell your value.


    Thanks for your time, I'm happy you come around here..

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       I love you............

           Always talk to me Estherwhite 



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